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I think it’s time we end this
PART I I was staring at the gold chain on his neck, moving up and down with every speed bump. The car ride to my house felt like eternity. You caressed my thigh with your right thumb, while the other hand was on the steering…
Manifestation 101
Manifestation can be defined as an event, action, or object that clearly shows or embodies something abstract or theoretical. For me, manifesting is telling myself all the things I want and seeing them come to life. How does one practice manifestation? There is no strict…
Love unresolved questions like they’re a foreign tongue.
There are so many unresolved questions that lie in a person’s heart. So many decisions that have different outcomes. One of the questions that constantly lingering in my mind, is the difference between loving someone and being in love with them. Being in love with…
The timeline of our almost…
I couldn’t really decipher missing a person from missing their presence, oh yes there is a clear difference between both. In the latter case, you miss their aura and how they make you feel, whilst in the first case, it was much more selfish, as…
Only child syndrome
The only child syndrome is a historical myth that only children are spoiled, selfish and lack patience. When you tell people that you are an only child, the first thing they say is “You’re spoiled!” or “Oh you clearly have only child syndrome” or “I…
(Don’t) take that leap of faith.
It took me a lot of time and a of research to be able to accurately translate a new concept into words. I want you the reader, to read this with an open mind, I want you to come into this willing to empathize. My…
Returning to the season when you fell in love.
Winter. I used to always look forward to doing small things with you; for some reason, I really enjoyed doing chores with you. I remember sitting down in the laundry room on freezing nights with a blanket and just staying there until the clothes had…
The powerlessness of online “intimacy”.
“Follow my finsta it’s __”, the green circle on Instagram, the padlock on snapchat. People make private social media accounts to be able to express themselves in what they think is a “safe zone”. I use my finsta to tell people about my life and…
Put on your own mask before helping others
In 2016, Rick Owens had models going down the runway carrying other models/gymnasts. It attracted quite a lot of attention because who would even think to do that? He didn’t really explain the interpretation behind it but did mention that the straps were supposed to…
Today we will be playing my favorite game; love!
I’ve realized that one of the reasons why most relationships don’t work out is because people don’t understand the concept of having a different love language to that of your partner. In this article, I will attempt to interpret each of the 5 love languages….